Yes, it has been awhile. Here are the updates.
1) I have been spending time with MALCOM [recently-separated friend] here and there. We are moving at a snail’s pace, which is appropriate for now. Have I mentioned he has a baby?
2) The last time I slept with MARC BOLAN [sexy guitar man] was the morning after we slept together. The following day was his birthday, and I did not attend the party, with work as an excuse. We exchanged a few text messages for a day or so and *poof* it was done. No goodbyes, no hard feelings (that I know of). I don’t know if I have ever had such an efficient casual sex relationship. I almost want to re-meet him so we can have this perfect little arrangement all over again.
3) And the real doozy: FLOYD [the not-so-close friend who wants me to fuck his lady] is on the prowl. At first, it was a mere suggestion: “My girlfriend thinks you’re hot.” Now he’s calling a couple times a week, inviting me to 'hang out.' I avoided him til last night, when he cornered me at a bar and said “We’re friends and I have always adored you and my girlfriend is so into you. It’ll be fun and it won’t be weird.” Have I mentioned I like girls? Probably not. I like to date women, but it is rare that I do so - the good ones are usually taken or hetero. So the proposition to have sex with this beautiful woman is interesting. I’d like to know her better before considering, but it isn’t so far fetched. What is not appealing is having sex with FLOYD. I cannot imagine kissing him, much less naked and writhing around and…gross.